At first sight, the reasoning seems fully justified. If you listen to the media in North America, you'll rarely hear the good of Russia or Eastern Europe. There are just disasters, misery, and other dictatorships madness. It is well known, when we compare ourselves we feel better.
So the Russian or Ukrainian women want to leave their country, for Canada, the US or Europe to avoid the misery of their country. Have you ever personally travelled to these countries to check by yourself? Is the situation really so bad?
Cities such as St. Petersburg, Moscow, Novosibirsk (city where I went to university) are rapidly growing cities. They are all richer than the richest megacities in Canada. Montreal compared to St. Petersburg or Moscow makes figure of a small town ...
Of course you will say that the situation is not famous in small provincial towns and you are right, but in this case, why go abroad? Why not just go to a big city in Russia or Ukraine? It is much easier, no need to learn another language.
And the war will you tell me? ah yes the famous war between Russia and Ukraine. The area is closed, and it concerns only two regions of Ukraine and do you think a girl whose family is caught in a conflict will dream to flee her family and leave her brothers, parents in conflict army to bask in the Miami sun by a pool? I will always remember my interview with Katia who fled the city of Donetsk and left her family because her mother ordered her to make her studies in Kiev. She cries, is languishing and hope to return close to her family.
Shame on those who put in the head of the girls these miserable thoughts that belong to them.
It is very fashionable to accuse Russian women and if possible, all without exception, it's easier that way, to rip you off your money. The blame on some rogue international dating agencies whose owners are mostly American, European, Greek and Arabic. These dishonest people use the beauty of the Slavic women to make bait and entice naive men looking for love or sex. The pitfalls can take varied forms. Forged letters, appointments monetized, profiles that do not exist. The Russian woman is used as a bait. After all, if you are done you have it's not his fault? She served as bait. After all, when the fish gets caught by a hook to which is hooked an earthworm, it is the fault of the earthworm or not? Until then we all agree. All Russian women to the pillory!
Certainly the cost of living in Ukraine is lower than in western countries and the tendency is strong for some Russian or Ukrainian people to increase a bit the price when they see a stranger. After all this can go unnoticed for him since he is accustomed to pay much more in his country. It's a fact, you are right. For this reason, in our romantic trips in Ukraine we associate each client with an assistant who will guide you, like a mother, a sister, a guardian angel and whose main mission is to protect you. No exchange of money without using it, and your assistant, lives on site so she knows the price. And any deviation from temptation is stopped at the source.
The modern man of Western societies is a weaken man. He is not quite sure who he is and what is his role. He got used to be driven by women. The modern man has lost its role as provider and guardian of the financial security. And that's a shame if you ask me, because I'd like someone to explain me what would be our role then? Stay home and take care of the garden?
In Slavic countries of Eastern Europe, a man must be able to guarantee the safety of the woman he desires. You want to get married with a lovely feminine woman? Do you like the difference between the sexes? So I have a question for you:
- Are you a man, able to provide for your family?
Another question I asked one of our guests this summer:
- Do you find it normal that a Ukrainian woman who is younger than you 10 years and earns about thirty times less money than you must pay her meal, her taxi and a train ticket to see you?
Be realistic in your expectations. You come from a culture that has distorted the values of gender relations. If you ask a young woman to pay her bill in a restaurant while she earns around $ 100 a month, do not travel to Ukraine or Russia. Just look for a feminist in your country!
I especially like this argument for what's basically self-pretentious. The implication is clear. I live in Canada, France, USA, so I live in a rich country while you, my poor, you live in the Third World. It is understood that Ukraine and Russia are the countries of the Third World.
Have you ever traveled in those countries? and all is said ...
The reality is different. There is indeed in the countries of Eastern Europe a serious shortage of men willing to start a family. Women are fighting each other to find a serious man, and even more after the age of 40 years. The low life expectancy in Russia is attributed to vodka, according to lots of serious studies. While our Canadian and European men play sports and moderate drinking, Slavic men smoke and drink. The result is not surprising and the statistics prove it: in Canada the male population outnumbered the female population.
Now try to analyze these treacherous women without a heart who seek a VISA on your back. Most of them have a job, a house, friends, family, a certain number of strong ties to their country. To immigrate, she must quit her job, sell her car, end her lease, sell her apartment, leaving family, friends, learn a new language from a country with a new mentality. All this for what? For a visa ...
I think you give too much importance to your passport. Ask yourself the question, would you do this for a passport?
She seems sweet, gentle, devoted and sincere ... It is because she hides you something. She has a hidden agenda, of course! She is waiting to get her papers and then she will slip away, neither seen nor known. But you're smart, you are better than that.
So now read that statistic pulled off the very official US statistics site:
The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that “…marriages arranged through [mail order bride] services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, fully 80 percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available.” The USCIS also reports that “… mail-order bride and e-mail correspondence services result in 4,000 to 6,000 marriages between U.S. men and foreign brides each year.”
So if I read between the lines we come to a divorce rate of 20%
In Quebec, according to our expert Yvon Dallaire, divorce rates have reached 67% for married couples married since 1990:
In Quebec 3 of 4 divorces are initiated by women. The reason: I'm bored. And also because divorce is financially beneficial for a Quebec woman.
So in the end who is the man who made the right choice?
I can hear the skeptics who thinks the Russian woman will just behave as a Quebec's wife when she will arrive.
No, because Steven Harper, our former Canadian Prime Minister thought of this hypothesis before you specially to counter the fictitious marriages between Canadian citizens and Cuban or Dominican citizens. (Canadian men AND women are concerned)
As of October 25, 2012, CIC amended the Immigration Regulations and the protection of refugees. These amendments specify that spouses, spouses of facts and conjugal partners whose relationship with the respondent two years old or less and have no children in common are subject to a period of conditional permanent residence. The condition requires the spouse, common-law or conjugal partner sponsored cohabiting in a conjugal relationship for a period of two years after becoming a permanent resident.
The conditional measure only applies to permanent residents whose applications have been received the day of entry into force of amendments, on October 25, 2012, or thereafter. In case of application of the conditional measure, once you divorce after a year she lost her permanent residence unless it falls within the exceptions in cases quell the obligation to provide for her needs three years applies to the person who sponsors in divorce after one year.
Important note : this Regulation has been modified in 2017 by Justin Trudeau's government :
Conclusion: if your Russian woman chooses to immigrate by interest and then she divorces, the Canadian government keeps her Permanent resident status.
Treacherous and dishonest Russian woman who is part of an international dating agency to find a naive man to take his money and get his Canadian or French passport. Let's see the path that awaits her:
So I have a question for you:
What is in it for her if she is not sincere and motivated by family life?