At first sight, the reasoning seems fully justified. If you listen to the media in North America, you'll rarely hear anything good about Russia or Eastern Europe. There is just disaster, misery, and other dictatorship madness. So Russian and Ukrainian women want to leave their countries for Canada, the US, or Europe to avoid the depression of their country. Have you ever personally traveled to these countries to check for yourself? Is the situation so bad?
Cities such as St. Petersburg, Moscow, and Novosibirsk (where I attended a university) are rapidly growing communities. They are wealthier than the largest metropolis' in Canada. Moscow and St. Petersburg both make Montreal look like a small town.
Of course, you will say that the situation is not as good in small provincial towns and you are right, but in this case, why go abroad? Why not just go to a big city in Russia or Ukraine? It is much more convenient, as there is no need to learn another language.
And what about the war between Russia and Ukraine? This inaccessible area is only two small regions in Ukraine, but do you think a girl whose family is in the middle of the conflict will dream to flee her family and leave her brothers, parents in a war to bask in the Miami sun by a pool? I will always remember my interview with Katia, who fled the city of Donetsk and left her family because her mother ordered her to study in Kyiv. She hopes to return and be close to her family. Shame on those who think these terrible thoughts about Slavic Women!
Shame on those who put in the head of the girls these miserable thoughts that belong to them.
It is very fashionable to accuse all Russian and Ukrainian women, without exception, if wanting to rip you off your money. The blame falls on rogue international dating agencies whose owners are mostly American, European, Greek, and Arabic. These dishonest people use the beauty of Slavic women to bait and entice naive men looking for love or sex. These marriage agencies use forged letters, costly appointments, and fake profiles to lure and defraud men. Therefore, Russian and Ukrainian women are bait. When a fish gets caught by a hook with a worm, is it the worm's fault?
The cost of living in Ukraine is lower than in western countries, and the tendency is for some Russian or Ukrainian people to increase the price when they see a stranger. After all, this can go unnoticed for the western foreigner since he usually pays much more in his country. It's a fact, and you are right. For this reason, our romantic trips in Ukraine, utilize an assistant for each man who will guide you, like a mother, a sister, a guardian angel, and whose mission is to protect you. Your assistance is a local native and knows the fair prices for goods and services and will prevent you from being exploited.
The modern man in Western societies is weak. He is not quite sure of who he is and his role. He got used to being driven by women. The modern man has lost his role as a provider and guardian of financial security. This a shame if you ask me because I'd like someone to explain our role? Stay home and take care of the garden?
In Slavic countries of Eastern Europe, a man must be able to guarantee the safety of the woman he desires. Do you want to get married to a lovely feminine woman? Do you like the difference between the sexes? So I have a question for you:
Are you a man, able to provide for your family?
Another question I asked one of our guests this summer:
Do you think that a Ukrainian woman who is ten years younger than you and earns about thirty times less money must pay for her meal, her taxi, and a train ticket to see you?
Be realistic in your expectations. You come from a culture that has distorted the values of gender relations. If you ask a young woman to pay her bill in a restaurant while she earns around $100 a month, do not travel to Ukraine or Russia. Just look for a feminist in your country!
I especially like this pretentious argument. The implication is clear. I live in Canada, France, and the USA, so I live in a rich country while you, my poor, you live in the Third World. Russia and Ukraine are third world countries.
Have you ever traveled and seen those countries?
The reality is different. In Eastern European countries, there is a shortage of men willing to start a family. Women are fighting each other to find a serious man and even more so after the age of 40. According to a lot of serious studies, the low life expectancy in Russia is due to vodka. While our Canadian and European men play sports and moderate drinking, Slavic men smoke and drink to excess. The result is not surprising, and the statistics prove it: in Canada, the male population outnumbers the female population.
Now try to analyze these treacherous women without a heart who seeks a visa. Most of them have a job, a house, friends, family, and a certain number of strong ties to their country. To immigrate, she must quit her job, sell her car, end her lease, sell her apartment, leave family, leave friends, and learn a new language from a country with a new mentality. All this for what? For a visa.
I think you place too much importance on your passport. Ask yourself this question, would you do all of this for a visa?
She seems sweet, gentle, devoted, and sincere. It is because she is hiding something from you. She has a hidden agenda, of course! She is waiting to get her papers, and then she will slip away, neither seen nor known. But you're smart, and you are better than that. So now read data pulled off the very official US statistics site:
The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that marriages arranged through mail order bride services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole. Eighty percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available. The USCIS also reports that mail-order bride and e-mail correspondence services result in four thousand to six thousand marriages between American men and foreign brides each year.
So if I read between the lines, we come to a divorce rate of 20%.
In Quebec, according to our expert Yvon Dallaire, divorce rates have reached 67% for married couples married since 1990:
In Quebec, 3 of 4 divorces are by women. The reason: Women tire of their marriage, and also because divorce is financially beneficial for a Quebec woman.
So in the end, who is the man who made the right choice?
Skeptics believe that a Russian woman will behave just like a Quebec woman when they arrive in Canada.
No, because Steven Harper, our previous Prime Minister, thought of this to counter the fictitious marriages between Canadian citizens and Cuban or Dominican citizens. Both Canadian men and women were concerned about this.
As of October 25, 2012, CIC amended the Immigration Regulations and the protection of refugees. These amendments specify that spouses and conjugal partners whose relationship with the respondent is less than two years and have no children are subject to a period of conditional permanent residence. The law requires that a spouse, common-law partner, or conjugal partner live in a relationship for two years after receiving a permanent residency permit.
The measure only affects permanent residents who applied on October 25, 2012, or later. Thus, an early divorce could lead to the sponsored partner losing their permanent residency.
Important note, this Regulation has been modified in 2017 by Justin Trudeau's government as follows:
Conclusion: if your Russian or Ukrainian woman chooses to immigrate by interest and then she divorces, the Canadian government keeps her Permanent resident status.
The Treacherous and dishonest Russian or Ukrainian woman who is part of an international dating agency is looking for a naive man to take his money and get his Canadian or French passport. Let's see the path that awaits her:
So I have a question for you:
What is in it for her if she is not sincere and motivated by family life?