Breast Size as a Dating Criterion: When Your Reptilian Brain Sabotages Your Love Life

Fair warning: This article might make you uncomfortable. Good. That's the point.

If you've read my previous article about how the cause of your romantic failures lies in your choice of criteria,  you already know where I'm going with this. But I'll keep hammering this point because I've said it before and I'll say it again: the criteria a man sets for finding his future wife are the very cause of his failures, especially when those failures keep repeating themselves.

Don't worry gentlemen, it's exactly the same on the Ukrainian women's side. I wrote about that here: Forget Ukrainian Women's Criteria: Here's Why the Matchmaker Changes Everything

The Day My Wife Almost Quit

Let me tell you a true story. A story that perfectly illustrates the madness some men trap themselves in.

As part of ,a personalized subscription, my wife Boryslava and her team did an enormous amount of groundwork for a well-educated young man. They interviewed dozens of young Ukrainian women who carefully reviewed the man's profile.

In the end, Boryslava found this particularly beautiful young woman with an angelic face, tall, slim. The classic criteria of feminine beauty incarnate. She had only one "flaw" for some: she had a young child.

The exchanges started on solid ground. The young man and the young woman quickly realized they genuinely had things in common. Chemistry was building. Hope was rising.

And then after a few weeks, the young man confessed to me with some shame that the girl was perfect in every way but... her breasts weren't big enough.

The Catalogue of Absurdities We've Heard

It's no surprise that we already understand men place disproportionate importance on physical appearance. But I can guarantee you it goes very far into the details:

• We had a client who only accepts women of a specific exact height. Not a centimeter more, not one less.
• We had a client who only accepts blondes with blue eyes. (Often men of African origin, interestingly enough – go figure human psychology.)
• We had a man in his fifties who only accepts young women in their twenties. That one, we'll remember for the rest of our lives at the agency.
• And then this famous client who rejected my wife's recommendation because her breasts were too small...

Imagine for a moment Boryslava's discouragement. Hours of work, dozens of interviews, a rare gem found... all rejected for a B cup instead of a D cup.

When Your Reptilian Brain Takes the Wheel

Let's be frank.

Shared values, common beliefs, vision for marriage and children – these essential criteria for the structural foundation of a couple – don't carry much weight against physical and sexual criteria.

It's sex and reproduction talking. Shutting down the cortex that thinks. And afterward, it's your cortex that pays for the damage once the reptilian brain has finished its nonsense.

How Scammers Sniffed Out the Opportunity

Want to know why romance scams exist? The first marriage agencies quickly figured out that only sexual criteria really interested men. And it's men who pay for the service.

So, as sure as two plus two equals four, scams started sprouting like mushrooms after rain:

• Sexy bikini photos
• Botox-filled lips
• Artificially enhanced breasts
• PPL (Pay-Per-Letter) systems

Bait to hook the reptilian brain of men searching for Love.

Even an agency that works honestly and conducts its searches based on serious relationship criteria... sex will always win over logic in the end. It's disheartening.

No, You're Not Smarter Than Everyone Else

You might think only naive people get fooled?

Completely false.

The most intelligent men, the wealthiest, the most specialized in their field of industry get fooled like beginners. I've seen engineers, doctors, CEOs behave like pimply teenagers in front of a photo of a woman in a swimsuit.

Professional intelligence doesn't protect against emotional stupidity.

What Ukrainian Women Are Really Looking For

There's one fundamental thing you need to understand: these women are not looking for a one-night stand. They're looking for marriage. A lifelong union. A serious man with whom to build a family.

If you're not serious, don't bother. Go on Tinder. But don't waste the time of women who have honorable intentions and an agency that works honestly.

The Diagnosis Is Clear

In the end, the diagnosis is crystal clear: all romantic failures are caused by poorly chosen criteria.

It's troubling when you think about it. It means that by adjusting your criteria, you'll end up being happy in love with your Ukrainian wife.

Sexual criteria are not criteria that determine the strength of a couple. Sorry to disappoint you.

What really matters:

• Shared values
• Common vision for family
• Mutual respect
• Ability to communicate
• Genuine commitment

Our Formula for Success

At CQMI Agency, we've developed an approach that works. Our $350 CAD subscription for 1 month allows you to receive 10 contacts from Ukrainian women who are genuinely interested in building a relationship.

Not retouched photos. Not fake profiles. Women verified by video, with serious intentions.

But for it to work, you too need to have serious intentions and sensible criteria.

Antoine Monnier
Director, CQMI Agency