How Are the Women at CQMI Registered on Our Platform?

I get asked this question all the time — and I completely understand why it matters to you. How do the women end up on our platform? Do they fall from the sky? Are we recruiting them on the street? Of course not. Behind every single profile you see on the CQMI website, there is a rigorous process that I built with my team in Ukraine — and trust me, it's nothing like creating an account on Tinder in 30 seconds.

Today, I'm going to open the doors to what goes on behind the scenes at our matchmaking agency. Because once you understand how we work, you'll also understand why our results are so different from anything you've experienced elsewhere.

  A Matchmaking Agency, Not a Dating Site

First things first: the CQMI agency operates as a matchmaking agency. This is not a dating site where anyone can sign up in two clicks with a blurry photo and a fake username. Here, every single registration — men and women alike — is manually approved. No one appears on the CQMI website without a human intervention on our end.

On both sides, identities are verified. This is essential to eliminate ghost profiles and, let's be honest, to avoid those little "mistakes" on age that happen far too often 😊 — when a gentleman decides to shave five years off. I've seen it so many times it doesn't even surprise me anymore. But at CQMI, it simply doesn't fly.

The registration process for women is considerably more demanding than for men. They must provide documents proving their marital status and also record a video at the time of registration. Why? Because we want to be absolutely certain that the woman in the photos is the same person who shows up. That's the foundation of trust — and it's exactly what's missing on 90% of the platforms you've used before.

I remember a client — let's call him Terry from Toronto — who told me he'd been burned on a regular dating site: the woman turned out to be 15 years older than her photos. At CQMI, this is simply impossible.

  Galina and Viktoria: Our Gatekeepers in Ukraine

Every day, we receive an average of about ten registration requests from women. They leave their phone number so we can call them back. And that's where our Ukrainian duo steps in: Galina and Viktoria, our two employees who live in Ukraine — yes, even during the war.

Galina and Viktoria call back each candidate and conduct a thorough preliminary interview. One of the first questions is about photos. Do they have professional-quality photographs? The competition among women in Ukraine is so fierce that they almost all know that without truly high-quality photos, they won't be accepted.

Many women invest in a professional photoshoot before even contacting us. They know perfectly well that the reptilian brain always has the final say when a man chooses a partner. I talk about this often in my Sunday Live sessions — and I wrote a detailed article about it: The Reptilian Brain vs. the Cortex. You can tell me that personality matters more than looks, but the reality is that 99% of your initial choice is based on appearance — and I'm not even sure it makes sense to leave 1% for everything else 😊

  Free for Them, Paid for You: The Choice That Makes the Difference

Here's a point that seems to shock some men when they learn about it: the service is free for women and paid for men. The question always comes up: "If they don't pay, how can you be sure they're motivated?"

It's a fair question, and here's my answer. The gap in living standards between a Western man and a woman from Eastern Europe is so significant that it makes no sense to charge the women a fee. Unlike other agencies in Ukraine that charge women, we chose this approach for a simple reason: to grow our database. And that, gentlemen, is something you appreciate — because you like having options.

But pay close attention, because this is crucial: unlike the PPL (Pay Per Letter) business model, our female members are never paid to communicate with a client. Zero. Nothing. The woman doesn't receive a single cent for writing to you or talking to you. If you've experienced PPL sites, you know exactly what I'm talking about — those letter factories where a woman's motivation is measured in dollars per message. I go into detail about this in my article on PPL dating scams.

  Marital Status Verification: Zero Tolerance

In both Ukraine and Russia, there are two types of passports: one for international travel and a domestic (internal) passport on which the marital status is recorded. It is through this document that we are able to filter out married women.

Our policy is crystal clear: married women are not accepted into our agency. Period. Even if a woman is in the middle of divorce proceedings — even if she swears it's just a matter of weeks — we refuse. Until the divorce is officially finalized, she cannot register. It's a matter of principle, and it's what protects our clients.

I recall a woman from Kharkiv who was insisting quite heavily, explaining that her husband had left two years ago and that she had filed for divorce. Viktoria was firm: "Call us back when you have the court stamp." It's as simple as that.

  Real Motivation: Do They Truly Want to Leave?

Beyond the documents, we interview every candidate about her real motivations. This is perhaps the most delicate part of the process, but also the most revealing.

Does she truly want to leave her country to build a life abroad? We ask the question directly, without beating around the bush. And that's exactly why I'll tell you this plainly: if a woman tells you she's not ready to leave her country, it's very likely a polite way of not telling you the truth about her feelings toward you. Our women have been pre-screened on this question before they even meet you.

When a woman registers with us and passes every verification step, it means she is ready to take the leap. She knows she's committing to a process that could take her to the other side of the world — to Canada, the United States, or Europe. That's not a decision anyone takes lightly, and we make sure that motivation is genuine. If you'd like to learn more about the subtle difference between a Russian woman and a Ukrainian woman, I've written a full article on the subject.

  The Verification Video: Proof by Image

Now let's talk about what interests you the most — and don't pretend otherwise: the photos. I'll say it again: 99% of a man's choice is based on a woman's physical appearance. That's just the way it is, it's human nature, and I'm certainly not going to blame you for it.

But precisely because photos are so important, we've set up a bulletproof verification system. To prove that the woman matches her photos, we ask her to send us a registration video. This video serves two purposes:

— Confirm her identity and her voluntary registration with the agency
— Compare her real appearance with the professional photos provided

Thanks to this system, we run a side-by-side comparison between the video and the photos. And since we implemented this procedure, we have never again received a single complaint about photos not matching the real person. Not once. This is the guarantee that when you browse a profile on our site, the woman you see is the woman you'll meet.

One of our clients, a Canadian from Vancouver, once told me: "Antoine, when I saw her at the airport in Kyiv, she was even more beautiful than in the photos." That's exactly what we aim for.

  Our Secret Formula: 10 Contacts, 1 Month, $350 CAD

Now that you know how our women get onto the platform and how serious the process is, you probably understand why our subscription plan at $350 CAD for 1 month is so effective. For this price, you get 10 contacts of women who are genuinely interested in building a relationship.

Not ghost profiles. Not women paid to write to you. Not stolen Instagram photos. Verified women, motivated, ready to commit to a serious relationship leading to marriage.

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  Questions?

If you have any questions about how the women are registered, about our methodology, or simply about your plans to meet a Ukrainian or Russian woman, don't hesitate to contact me directly: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.. I personally answer every message.

And don't forget: every Sunday, I go Live on YouTube to answer all your questions. Join us.