The Psychological Component of Sexual Desire

Why Putting Sexual Pressure on a Ukrainian Woman Produces the Exact Opposite Effect

This is a question I hear all the time, and today I want to answer it clearly, honestly, and without any political correctness.

“Antoine, when can I realistically expect to have sex with a Ukrainian woman?”

This question was recently asked again by Serge, a French client.
Behind this question, there is often impatience, sometimes anxiety, and very often… pressure.

And that is exactly where things go wrong.

Sexual desire is not mechanical, it is psychological

Many men still think like this:
→ “We meet, we get along well, so sex should naturally follow.”

This way of thinking is very masculine… and completely counterproductive with Ukrainian women.

Female desire does not respond to ultimatums.
It responds to emotion, security, uncertainty, absence, and projection.

The more pressure you apply, the faster you destroy desire.

A real-life example: Manu and Nataliya (Live 135)

I explained this in detail in Live 135: “Fast sex with a Ukrainian woman”.

Manu, a French client, joined a group trip to Kyiv.
He met Nataliya, a woman with whom he genuinely wanted to build a long-term relationship.

But there was a problem.

Manu told us very clearly:

“I can’t go back to France without testing the merchandise.”

An awkward and clumsy expression, if you ask me, but very revealing.

In other words:
→ Sex now, or I’m gone.

This type of ultimatum is toxic for female desire.
Because, whether men like it or not, it is always the woman who decides if sex will happen.

Yes, Manu got what he wanted.
He even convinced Nataliya to move to France with him.

But their relationship did not last more than one year.

Why?
Because the power balance was broken from the very beginning.

Conclusion: this approach is NOT the key to success.

Morrissey understood it long before most men

My favorite English singer is Morrissey.
When I was younger, I was a die-hard fan. I owned all his albums.

One of his songs is titled exactly:
“The More You Ignore Me, The Closer I Get.”

This is not just a song lyric.
It is a fundamental psychological truth in seduction.

Doubt: the most powerful trigger of female desire

If you show a woman, in a subtle but clear way,
that she leaves you relatively indifferent on a physical level,
something very specific will happen in her mind.

That something is called doubt.

And doubt is deeply uncomfortable for a woman.

Why?
Because a woman wants to be desired.
It is part of her feminine identity.

Being next to a man who does not openly show desire
creates an unconscious feeling of humiliation.

What happens next?

She seeks reassurance.
She tries to get closer.
She activates the desire process herself.

Interesting, isn’t it?

“That’s manipulation!”

Yes. And?

I can already hear some of you saying:

“Antoine, that’s manipulation!”

Yes. Absolutely.

But let’s be honest for a moment:
that’s exactly what you are looking for, isn’t it?

Seduction is a psychological game.
This method can be learned, practiced, and with experience,
it can become extremely effective.

That said, there is also a possibility that you meet a woman who is simply not very interested in sex, or who has a very slow rhythm.

If your needs are important and incompatible,
then you are simply not on the same wavelength.

And it is better to realize that early.

What Ukrainian women are really looking for

One thing must be perfectly clear:

Ukrainian women are not looking for one-night stands.
They are looking for marriage, stability, and a lifelong union.

If you are not serious, please refrain.

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This avoids fantasies, false expectations, and costly mistakes.

In summary

• Sexual pressure kills desire
• Female desire is primarily psychological
• Doubt is a powerful attraction trigger
• Ukrainian women want commitment
• Marriage, not casual encounters

Questions?

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