This question comes up systematically during my calls with new members. "Antoine, I found a beautiful woman but she hasn't logged in for three months... Is she still active?" I understand this concern. On French or North American dating sites, a prolonged absence usually means an abandoned profile. But here, we're in a completely different world.

Zero Fake Profiles: Our Absolute Commitment

Let's start with the most important point: there are no fake or ghost profiles on the CQMI Agency website. Every woman you see corresponds to a real person we have met individually via video conference. Our registration process is rigorous — we verify identity, discuss motivations, and most importantly, we ensure that the photos match the woman in front of us.

Galina and Viktoria, our coordinators in Ukraine, conduct these interviews with a professional eye. They immediately detect women who aren't serious or whose intentions don't match the search for an authentic marriage.

So Why Doesn't She Log In?

Last week, Irina, 34, from Kharkiv, made me smile. When I asked her why she never logged into the site, she replied with a typically Slavic shrug: "Why would I log in? If a man chooses me, Viktoria will call me."

That's the whole cultural difference. Here are the three main reasons:

The Lost Password
Many women have simply forgotten their password. They know that if a man is interested in them, an agency employee will contact them directly by phone. Why complicate things?

Preference for Viber or Telegram
Some women categorically refuse to log into the site and insist that we send them the man's profile as a PDF via these messaging apps. It's their way of operating, and we adapt.

The Slavic Culture of the First Move
This is perhaps the most important reason to understand. In Slavic culture, it's the man's role to make the first move. A woman who actively browses male profiles gives the impression of being "desperate" — an image she absolutely refuses to project, even when she's genuinely looking for love. It's a matter of dignity and tradition.

What If It's Actually an Opportunity?

I'm going to share something that might surprise you: an old connection date is often a good sign for you.

Think about it: if she doesn't log in, she's not browsing other men's profiles. She's simply waiting to be contacted. You therefore have less direct competition for her attention.

Remember what I often repeat: on our site, the ratio is completely reversed compared to Western dating sites. For approximately 1,800 women's profiles, we have at most 25 men with an active subscription. Do the math — some women will never receive a contact request due to the lack of men.

It's absurd when you think about it: millions of Western men are fighting on sites where the ratio is 95 men to 5 women, while here, it's exactly the opposite.

These Women Are Looking for Marriage, Not a Fling

One final essential point: the Ukrainian and Russian women registered with us are not looking for a one-night stand. They want to build a life, start a family, and commit for good. If you're not ready for that level of commitment, this isn't the right place for you.

My own story with Boryslava, my Ukrainian wife, taught me this truth: when a Slavic woman commits, it's for life. And that's exactly the type of women we select.

Take Action

Don't let a simple connection date stop you from contacting the woman who could change your life. Our subscription formula at €250 for 1 month allows you to get up to 10 contacts with women genuinely interested in building a relationship.

Do you have questions about a particular profile? Contact me directly at antoine@cqmi.ca — I will reply personally.

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Antoine Monnier
Founder of CQMI Agency