By Antoine – International Matchmaking Agency CQMI
This article may surprise many men.
Because when a Canadian, American, or European man thinks about a Ukrainian woman, he often imagines:
And almost automatically, he draws this conclusion:
“A woman this feminine must be very romantic.”
This is where the first major misunderstanding begins.
The beauty of Slavic women completely distorts the perception of many Western men.
High heels, careful makeup, graceful posture, soft eyes…
All of this creates the illusion of constant romance.
But the reality is very different.
? Women from Eastern Europe — and Ukrainian women in particular — are deeply pragmatic.
Often far more pragmatic than Western women.
This pragmatism is not a flaw.
It is the result of history, culture… and today, war.
This is a question many men subconsciously avoid.
? Can we really talk about romance when:
For Ukrainian women, romance is not a priority.
And this has nothing to do with a lack of heart.
? Their priorities are very clear:
From Paris, Brussels, Toronto, or Chicago, this attitude can look like:
In reality, it is simply a difference in priorities shaped by the country you live in.
I see this constantly at CQMI.
A man comes to me and says:
“Antoine, she’s beautiful… but she’s not romantic.”
When we dig deeper, we often discover:
? This is not what serious Ukrainian women are looking for.
They are not searching for a creative man.
They are searching for a reliable man.
Let me share a real situation.
A French client had been corresponding for several months with a Ukrainian woman living in Kyiv.
Convinced that he needed to “stand out,” he decided to make a romantic surprise.
He flew to Kyiv… without telling her.
He called her while she was at work, proudly announcing:
“Guess where I am… I’m in Kyiv!”
Her reaction?
? Cold.
? Stressed.
? Clearly unhappy.
Why?
Because:
He thought he was being romantic.
She thought:
“This man does not understand my reality at all.”
What she wanted was not a surprise.
? She wanted a clear, structured, reassuring plan.
This is a crucial point Western men often forget.
? Serious Ukrainian women are not looking for:
They are looking for:
If this is not your mindset, please abstain.
You will waste your time — and theirs.
At CQMI, we understood this reality a long time ago.
That is why we offer a very specific formula:
? A one-month subscription at €250 (approximately $270 USD)
? giving access to 10 contacts with Ukrainian women genuinely interested in building a serious relationship.
No fantasy.
No endless chatting.
No games.
? Women who know exactly what they want.
This is our secret sauce:
connecting responsible adults with clear intentions.
It is about building something solid.
The Western men who succeed with Ukrainian women are those who understand that:
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https://www.cqmi.ca/fr/
Ukrainian women are not romantic in the Western sense of the word.
And that is a good thing.
? They are:
If you are a serious Canadian or American man — single or divorced —
looking for a wife, not an illusion…
Then you may be exactly the man they are waiting for.
A étudié à CQPNL Centre québécois de PNL
